Chat with Sis Noe: My lover’s gun is too small

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Chat with Sis Noe: My lover’s gun is too small

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Hi Sis Noe
MY boyfriend has a small penis. I don’t enjoy sex and I have had to fake orgasms. — Help.

Reply
Let’s get this out of the way first: Penis size isn’t everything when it comes to sex. For some people, it may be a total non-issue. That’s because not everyone relies on penetration for sexual satisfaction, and actually, most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone anyway. That said, it’s normal to be a little caught off-guard if all of your previous sexual partners have been pretty similar, anatomically speaking, and this partner was smaller than average. And if you’re used to being with a well-endowed dude, that just might be your sexual preference — and there’s nothing wrong with that either.

You don’t need a bigger penis to have all of the orgasms, but it is a sexual preference just like anything else. This is something to remember any time you have sex with someone new: Nerves, anxiety, and pressure can all do a number on a guy’s erection, which might mean he’s not getting as hard as he could be. This is actually totally normal — even for young men — especially if there’s not enough foreplay. It’s possible that as you become more comfortable with each other and have sex a few more times, you’ll find that his erections are actually stronger or longer. If you’re really wet, you might not feel as much sensation with a smaller-than-average penis. So I suggest you wipe away some of the excess lubrication and see what happens. Good luck.

Hi Sis Noe
My girlfriend cries during sex. She says it’s because she will be enjoying. I am afraid that I will be hurting her. — Worried.

Reply
Breaking into tears can sure seem intense in the moment. Sometimes those tears are a sign of it all being too much, but sometimes tears can be harmless, or even good! Plenty of women cry happy tears during sex. She might feel grateful that she feels safe enough with you to explore power-play.

She might feel relieved that you are giving her permission to go to places that she may have not considered before. Or she might simply be feeling a lot of love for you in that moment. If that’s the case, let her cry! It might be because she is in pain. But since she said she’s not in pain, accept her explanation.

Hi Sis Noe
I think my boyfriend is ashamed to be with me. He always insists that we meet away from the public. — Confused.

Reply
If I was you I would ask myself why I am still with a man who is ashamed of me. If someone cannot accept you for who you are then they don’t belong in your life. If you want me, you need to want all of me.

SOULMATES
I am a man in my thirties, may you link me with a beautiful lady of 30 plus years, residing in or around Bulawayo.

I am a woman with three kids, looking for a man to settle down with. I’m HIV-positive. I’m 41 years old.

I’m a mother of four looking for a man who is single ongela mfazi, 35 to 45 years old. I’m HIV-positive and I’m looking for umuntu o-positive laye o-serious.

Hello Sis Noe, I am a lady aged 40, may you please connect me with a serious man who wants to settle down, should be between 44 to 55 years old, preferably in Bulawayo. I am HIV-positive.

I’m a divorcee aged 43 with two kids, have a permanent job, HIV-positive. I’m looking for a man aged 45 to 50 who is also HIV-positive. I’m ready to settle down.

Hie Sis, I am a man aged 42, HIV-positive with two children, a boy of 11 years, HIV-positive and girl, aged six and HIV-negative both staying with me.

Their mother died three years back. I am looking for someone who is HIV-positive to marry with one child or without from 29 years to 38 years and I am in Bulawayo.

I am a widow aged 39. I am HIV-positive, looking for a single man or akafirwawo we-same status anemakore 40 to 55 ari serious kuda kuroora, murume wacho anofanirwa kuva muBulawayo.

I am a lady aged 36, single with no kids and HIV- positive. Would you set me up with an HIV-positive man aged 38 to 45 who’s single.

May you please connect me with an HIV-positive guy who wants to marry aged 35 to 40.

I am a single mother of two aged 34 looking for a man between 36 to 43 years who wants a serious relationship. No married men please.

Ndiri mukadzi ane makore 43, ndodawo munhu wekufambidzana naye ane 46 years and above from Gweru or Bulawayo.

May you connect me with a lady aged 36 to 40, seriously searching for a lifetime partner especially from Bulawayo. I am 52, single, HIV-positive and I’ve been through many disappointments. I am ready to settle down.

I am looking for a female partner aged between 23 to 27 with or without a child, who wants a serious relationship and ready to marry by next year.

May you link me with any HIV-positive lady aged between the ages of 30 and 45. Preferably one who works. I am a civil servant. Thank you in advance sister.

I am a 43-year-old woman with two kids, looking for a man to settle down with. Never been married, I am still praying for a faithful husband. Please help.

Kindly connect me with a lady aged between 40 and 47 who is serious to settle down. I am a man of 47 who is gainfully employed and a father of two who is HIV-negative. I need a professional lady of any status.

I am a man of 30. I need a woman aged between 18 to 40 who is good and caring. I have a good job and a good salary. I have one son.

I’m a woman aged 45 with two kids. I need to settle down. I am HIV-negative and prepared to go for HIV tests. I need someone aged 48 to 55.

For the above numbers WhatsApp the number 0773111328. Calls will not be entertained.

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