Love, Sex and Money

10 Aug, 2014 - 00:08 0 Views

The Sunday News

THIS is a column to the people, for the people and by the people so your contributions, views and comments are greatly appreciated so that we help each other in our daily lives. In our first instalment I will talk about sex, I just thought of that song back in the day, “Let’s talk about sex, let’s talk about you and me.” Every birth is a magical act, performed through sex. Everyone likes sex, and everyone wants sex and it is a human need that is hard wired into us, and needs to be better understood, I think the problem is that we repress the natural urges of it so much, that it makes it seem bad.

We all have different views about sex with some people finding it pretty neat but fail to see what the big fuss is about. Others are completely uninterested and there are those who lack interest because of trauma or medical issues. They are not the only people who are not into sex. The other thing about sex is that it’s not everyone’s cup of tea so I know not everyone will understand me.

The reality of sex is that some people have it, some people don’t, some people have lots of it, some people have little of it, and life doesn’t revolve around avoiding it or chasing it. The reality is that there is no such thing as a “normal” sex life, even though sex is a normal part of life. If a person desires sex, pursues sex, and has sex with someone else who wants to, then great and good for them.

That is because sex is not a spectator sport (unless that is what you are into). It’s about the pleasure, desire, and experience of the people having the sex, not the prevailing assumptions of the people around them. Sex is almost like a fine wine, it just gets better with time and mood. It is the same with men and women. Most people, in the beginning of their sexual history, are inexperienced but are always trying to figure out new methods to help their partners have better orgasms. It takes a while before a person is in touch with their sexuality and is comfortable exploring and learning what works for them.

As people, we love romance and sex it is only natural. You can never go wrong with satisfying your partner. One of the biggest mistakes people make is having little or no communication about their sex life in their relationship. This is dangerous as it can kill a relationship because everything can get boring and become routine. When you surprise your partner with a nice meal, some good wine, then proceed to the bedroom, it opens a whole new level of eroticism it sounds interesting and I am already getting excited.

These are the nights when you and your partner are going to be very eager to please each other and try new things out. Your partner is already going to be sexually charged, itching to give you what you are seeking. A small hint that can help along the sexual adventure: While you are having your meal, you can start talking about what you are going to do to each other at home later. It might strike up a new idea or fantasy that opens the door to adventure.

Your perfect sex partner could be short or tall, rail thin or voluptuous, young or older, bright or dumb as nails. What matters is that she suits you and you have chemistry in the bedroom. The physical union of a man and a woman, in essence, is a supernatural act, a reminiscence of paradise, the most beautiful of all the hymns of praise dedicated to the Creator by the creature, I mean it is the alpha and the omega of all creation.

In the heart of every religion there are teachings about intimate human relationships, a sacred knowledge about the transformative power of sex, which states that true spiritual mastery is a result of conquering base desires and transforming them into conscious virtues. Harnessing and transforming the most powerful forces within places on a revolutionary path to spiritual awakening. Both men and women have strong emotional needs for intimacy.

The act of sex remains the primary response that gives both partners the feelings of closeness, caring and romance that they greatly need. That is why the great majority of men would say they don’t just want an unemotional, “let’s get this over with” experience in bed. Their emotional needs are not automatically met by having a physical release. People desperately need to know that their partner desires them, finds them attractive and gets great satisfaction through sexual intimacy. Their love, expressed through sexual intimacy, gives him a sense of well-being like nothing else can. Email your views and comments to . . .

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