The Sunday News
Nhlalwenhle Ncube
COUPLES should know that relationship destroyers are everywhere and they should not allow these people to destroy their marriages. I mean the agents of darkness who are relationship destructors!
I know some relationship lifespan was cut short because of third parties who told lies or fell in love with someone.
The thought that you are lonely because of a certain individual is so terrible and can haunt you for the rest of your life.
While I advocate for holding your partner responsible if they cheat on you instead of fighting the other person, I am also not ignorant of the fact that some people derive pleasure from coming between two people who love each other.
They are agents of Satan sent to distract good women and men in good relationships until the time when they fall into their traps.
They tell them what they want to hear, do things for them that maybe their partners aren’t doing. They whisper sweet things to them, buy gifts and tell them they are the best thing that ever happened to them after toast bread.
Some men have the ministry of going after women in serious relationships or married women.
They run after these women with so much passion and intensity that if they were to devote time to building their own relationships, their women would be the happiest women on earth.
And when they know that they have successfully lured these women into their den, they dump them.
They turn their world upside down. By this time, they have successfully turned them against their partners so that when they disappoint them, they are stranded.
May God deliver good women from the hands of these agents of darkness who go about destroying relationships! If you are a woman reading this, may you never fall for that handsome boy with that six pack, sexy voice and brain turning sex skills to boot.
On the other hand, there are also agents of darkness targeting men.
There are some women who cannot afford a smile as they eagerly wait to disfigure side chicks with acid. Unfortunately men are always like babies and easily get excited with “new” things.
When they have found a new lover, they forget where they come from.
Ignore the side chick and face your partner. Some people have sustained life injuries and even died for fighting the wrong persons. Face your partner and tell him to put an end to the flirting and unholy association.
I have realised that some people tend to fight the wrong person and at the end suffer heartbreaks which could have been avoided.
If there is someone calling your husband at odd hours and sending him flirty messages, hold your husband accountable.
Don’t start shouting home breaker as if your partner has temporary amnesia that he’s married to you. He is the one you should hold responsible for trying to break the home you are building.
He is the one who made vows to stick with you for life and not the other woman.
It is the duty of every man and woman to fight for the survival of their marriage. Team up against the agents of darkness to avoid heartbreaks!
FEEDBACK
I decided to share the feedback I got from the article, “Broke man has no value.”
The article was accepted with mixed feelings and some people had no kind words for me. I really found it interesting as it generated interesting debate.
I couldn’t stop laughing after reading the article, broke man has no value. It’s a fact!
I enjoyed the article about broke men having no value.
So true and to the point. It was like you were talking to me. Thanks a lot for such a well written, educative article. Go girl, just call a spade a spade.
Will it be therefore recommendable that a broke guy dates a vulnerable woman because he cannot pay the bills?
Women should stick to men whom they are at same level with, if you are not employed, play with the unemployed as well.
Why is it that equal rights only apply at workplace and not at home?
Yes, broke men are of no help. Even God said men should work hard to fend for their families.
Unfortunately these days men want to sit at home and enjoy watching television while women take care of family.
I agree that a man must provide for his family; however, I have noted that couples rarely divulge the real problem causing friction between them when it comes to financial matters.
If women had to go for financially stable men then 70 percent of us would be single. So yes, love does not pay bills and all, but it is the basis of a relationship.
I do not understand why men are supposed to have money, where do you expect us to get it from? Just because I do not have money I should not have a relationship.
I think you are encouraging young ladies to go for sugar dads because they are the ones with money.
A broke man has no value! Well said.
You do not deserve to be a Ncube. I wonder whether from your family there are no poor people.
Why is it that even those without livestock, they eat meat. Even the poor wants to get married. Let the lucky broke man enjoy life as well.
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