The Sunday News
Love, Sex & Money
THE bedroom should be an all-rounder room it can be turned into anything but please desist from making it a dreading boardroom where it’s always talk and no play. This week I have exciting bedroom games to share with you just so you can turn it from boring to fun. Sex life can be so much fun but only if you are willing to go the extra mile and put effort into what can please your partner, sex should not be out of duty or vows you took but it should be that sensual feeling that each time you think of your bedroom you get a nice chill and tingle on your body.
Who says sexiness should be confined to just the sexual act only if you ask me I think the humping is too much of a dread. The getting all warmed up part is what excites me the touching, the feeling, the kissing and uhmmm the foreplay just does it for me. Most people complain about not getting satisfied or just doing it for the sake of doing it rather it is a duty. Well sex is a beautiful thing and should not be performed only when duty calls but should be thoroughly enjoyed by both parties involved. This week I want to dwell on before the act getting the mood right, setting the tone, the pace and making sure that every encounter is the best ever until you lose record of which one was really the best.
The bedroom should not be used for discussing serious issues but should be treated as a play room, play games in the bedroom and spice up your married life. How about you try and set up the mood by decorating it with scented candles, flowers, and use silky sheets on the bed my word! I am already getting ideas for tonight. It’s always fun to decorate and I think more of us women need to invest in decorating our bedrooms and setting the mood right I mean as a couple you spend more time in your bedroom than you think, so you better make sure you love being there! Romantic games, sexy lingerie and romantic accessories such as strawberries, whip cream and many more are a must in your bedroom shelve, I know most of you probably think that is only for tv use but you too need to try this at home and see the magic it will work for you.
The spice of a relationship lies in the little romantic mood that you set everyday. You can keep the charm alive by doing those sensuous acts not only when you are compelled too but make it your signature in the bedroom. Oh! maybe you can just add spice to your relationship through some creativity. Well you can write sexy notes and paste them on his laptop or on the bedroom door, wherever you think it’ll be safe and would be read by him only! Let him miss your presence when you are not there because you always make sure that your presence is felt. You can rev up the note with something sexy such as a red lipstick kiss mark or your perfume!
You can even try the dress up act I mean every man loves it when his woman looks hot. It not only proves to be a delightful sight but, it also excites them for the real thing. Wear a low neck dress and let him have a sneak peek on your privilege (cleavage)while you are up and about in the house. Later on in your bedroom you can do role playing dress up as a nurse, police officer, naughty maid and all I mean the list is endless all you have to do is set the mood. Who doesn’t feel sexier dressed up in the naughty dress up only for your husband! Get dressed up and act out a fantasy you have been dying to try! Open your mind and free your shyness he is your partner and will be more pleased than start on a judgment journey . . . You never know where your imagination will take you! There is never a dull moment, you will enjoy every passionate moment every time you do role play!
Well, keeping your sex life alive in the bedroom is not at all difficult. In fact, it will definitely keep that spark alive and will make you and your partner look forward to the night, and not only the day. So, do not hesitate and keep it sexy and exciting in the bedroom! Fresh flowers approach I mean they are very much affordable and available at the Large City Hall (hint). Try to scatter rose petals, everywhere (on the dresser, bed, pillows, floor) or for a romantic treat . . . scatter them everywhere, on your bed anywhere in the bedroom then maybe if you can try the mouthwatering taste sensation of red wine and chocolate, it’s amazing! So go ahead and try it out then maybe try the lighting effect, it is very effective in spicing up romance. Light scented candles (please by all possible means avoid the ordinary candles) and position them all over the room, dim the lights or turn them completely off, so the candlelight can create a romantic glow and you can see each other in a different way and if you are creative play a romantic CD, playing softly in the background.
Sexual relationships are fun, especially when you and your partner use romantic evening ideas to spice things up every now and then. Now you have more than a few romantic bedroom ideas to get your creative juices flowing. Now, it’s your turn to take these ideas and add your personal touch, to create that romantic night you have always dreamed about. Yes, you can be romantic! Just let your imagination go wild!
Till next week stay on setting the mood right email [email protected].
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